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Dream Crashers ~ By Dionna Sanchez

Everyone has a dream.  Some people protect their dreams and don't let anyone tell them they can't reach it.  Others give up or are easily discouraged and then they become "dream crashers."

What's a dream crasher?  It's a person who tries to hinder someone else from achieving his or her dream.  I think they do it because they themselves don't think they can reach their own dream.  And, since it wasn't possible for them, they begin to tell others that their dreams aren't possible either.

I think that dream crashers have an empty spot inside of themselves.  Maybe they don't even realize it - but somewhere along the way, they got disillusioned and lost their ability to be positive or to have a goal to reach.  I don't know what it is that makes someone want someone else to fail, but it happens.  Maybe they don't even realize they are doing it because they are just so filled with the realization of unfulfilled plans and dreams that the sadness in their heart is projected onto everyone else who has some wishes and hopes.

We need to be careful of not becoming a dream crasher.  If someone else has a dream, it's okay to caution and encourage them to have some tangible and realistic goals to back them up; but let them have their dream.  Everyone deserves to have a dream.  It's what makes you feel alive inside!  And if  you are one who has kept your dream alive in your heart, be careful not to let others crash in on your hopes.  Protect your dream and let it give your heart and soul life and meaning.  Don't ever let someone can tell you that you CAN'T do something - for anything is possible.

I think dreams are a vital part of our lives.  We all make choices and it's not your fault when a dream isn't reached in someone else's life.  It's time to believe in yourself and give yourself some credit if only for keeping your dream alive and not allowing anyone else to wreck it in your heart.  And if your dream has been unreachable, maybe it's time for you to give it some life in your heart again or come up with a new dream for your life.

No one has the right to crash in on your dreams and you don't have the right to crash someone else's.  Dreams give a life hope and purpose.  Realize and enjoy that for yourself... and for others.


~ Dionna Sanchez has always been a dreamer.  You can see one of her dreams - the Emphasis On Moms Ministry at http://www.EmphasisOnMoms.com/newsletter.htm